Relationships by Design ~ Self-Coaching Tool | Align With Your Design
Manifesting Generators VS GENERATORS **Root to Throat via SACRAL a Manifesting Generator, does that mean I am a Generator or a Manifestor? . It is as if the Man/Gen is constantly "test driving" her response to see if it is the right one. If Generators and Manifesting Generators don't wait to respond but instead Assuming you have a good relationship with your sister, that feeling that you want . I invite you to test out these practices to their validity and potential. Most people are either Generators, Manifesting Generators or are relating to Generators every day. If you want a deeper and richer relationship with a Manifestor, the same is .
When you hit plateaus or derailments ASK the people around you to help you. You will discover what you like or want through questions or something to respond to. That activity or response may last for a few minutes or a few years. Recognize that the conversation may be satisfying for you but not for them. Do you have the energy for that?
Would you like me to help you with that? If you want a deeper and richer relationship with a Generator and for Generator to Generatorask them the same question more than once, either consecutively or subsequently. They will shower you with appreciate when you help them connect to their inner truth located in their gut. Life is all about response.
You love being around and interacting with others because you learn so much about yourself as well as how to make our world a better place. Any attempts to get recognition by telling, persuading, instructing, without an invitation first, has lower vibratory effects on you and the people around you. When you hit derailments it looks like exhaustion or some version of resentment. Before you blame others for their lack of appreciation, reassess.
This derailment could be an indicator for you to go back to the drawing board and reevaluate your interest, education, research and your motives.
Though it may feel like a lonely place, it is the only place where can refine your service to mankind. When you have more depth in a particular subject or service the recognition will follow. Allow them the time to talk, and at times, over explain things.
It just is how it is. Enhance your relationship with them by communicating your understanding of their need to be invited. When it feels authentic to you, invite them and recognize them. If you do not want their opinion about something, be direct with them. However, if you do want them to tell you what they see that most likely you cannot, ask them. Then follow up on what they tell you, because they are usually right-on.
If you want a deeper and richer relationship with a Projector, encourage them to have more down time. They are much happier people when they are rested. Most importantly, invite them to participate in your life. They are gifted intellectually and are an amazing resource from observation; utilize their abilities to strengthen your relationship and any work projects.
When you express your authentic power you can inspire the masses to advance themselves. If you get yourself tangled up in too many details or volunteering your gift of doing, you are in quicksand my friend. Your voice carries a vibration of action and impact. Before you speak or leap to the next activity there are two things to consider first. Are you in alignment with your inner knowing? And second, have you informed your team mates or family what is coming next? Understand their need for autonomy.
Do not try to control or maneuver to get them to DO something. This will backfire and create chaos. If you want your Manifestor to assist you or DO something, simple inform them of the situation without asking for their help.
Relationships by Design ~ Self-Coaching Tool
If they have the energy for it, they will get it done in a New York minute. If you want a deeper and richer relationship with a Manifestor, the same is true about Projectors, they need more rest and often they do not give it to themselves. Give them breathing room to get their message out to the world, on their terms.
You enjoy being around different types of environments and people, observing and noticing the reflections you exchange. Your life is all about doing what you love and only that shows you who you are and brings you happiness. In words of a renowned anthropologist Joseph Campbell: Your energy is cut off and you end up feeling depleted, tired or frustrated.
There are 2 categories of Generators: Pure Generators and Manifesting Generators. The main difference is that Pure Generators work in gradual phases, much like climbing a mountain: If they didn't begin whatever they are doing out of response, this is the moment when they feel stuck or trapped.
However, if they entered into it correctly, eventually an impulse will come from outside and they will resume their work, and start climbing again. Manifesting Generators do things very quickly and are even more tempted to initiate not waiting for something to respond to. They are very efficient and skip that, which is not important. But in doing so, they also often skip something essential and then they need to go back to it.
If you're a Generator, it's healthy for you to go to bed only when you are exhausted. If you haven't used up your energy, you will have problem falling asleep and will not wake up fresh the next day. Wait to respond Predominant negative feeling: You are here to know others, to recognize and guide them. But that can only happen if you yourself are 1 recognized and 2 invited to do so.
Sample Projector's chart Your strategy is to wait for an invitation in the important areas of you life your relationships, work etc. If your authority says yes, then you can really share your gifts and guidance. To be invited means that you are seen and recognized for your values. If you don't wait for an invitation, or the energy of invitation, you meet resistance. Through your open centers, you take others in deeply.
You take in other people's definition and you can clearly see who they are. Your aura focuses on the very core of their being and you can recognize others.
But if you try to guide others without being invited to do so, you meet resistance, or feel that no one really sees you, no one recognizes you. Out of that comes a deep feeling of bitterness, often mixed with exhaustion.
Projectors fear that they will not be invited. But if you follow your strategy of waiting for the invitation, what happens is that your aura's frequency starts to change and the more you live according to your design, the more invitations you get.
Once invited, you don't need to wait for any more invitations regarding whatever you were invited to project, job, relationship etc. Just follow your authority in doing what you do and don't initiate. The invitation, correct entry into anything, is the key. The feeling of being recognized, appreciated, heard and seen. If not, you may stop talking in mid sentence and save yourself yet one more disappointment of not being understood.
Projectors are the eternal students of humanity and system masters. You need to have a system through which you can relate and understand life. Projectors often have the need to study Human Design deeply in order to gain the intellectual understanding of how they are to operate correctly. Projectors are the only type who can really know what's going on.
Your openness can be energetically exhausting, so it is important to have your own space where you can relax. The same advice regarding sleeping applies to you as to everyone else with an undefined Sacral: Wait for an invitation, or the energy of invitation Predominant negative feeling: If you have all your centers open, you are a Reflector.
Sample Reflector's chart You are completely open to the world and others. As there are no defined centers in your design, you take in the definition of everybody else. It's like seeing the world through their eyes, sampling their particular frequency and reflecting back the other. You are like a mirror and the reflection of other people constantly changes your perception. One moment you many feel extremely emotional, the next moment it's gone. Then you may get all these ideas and a strong sense of knowing where you're going in life, and then it's gone again, and so on and so forth.
That's why it's very important for you to choose your friends and partners carefully, as they will have a great impact on your feelings and your experience of yourself. For you, the open G center rule - to be only in places that you like - is even more important. Then you will be with the right people and get the love you seek.
Your total openness can make you at times almost invisible to others. Without knowing the mechanics of your design, you may feel deeply disappointed in life. But this very openness is a potential for a great wisdom, if you learn how to work with it correctly. You are here to sample life. To successfully apply this knowledge, Reflectors have the need to study and intellectually understand the Human Design System. Any kind of pressure is detrimental to your health. Take your time to make important decisions and don't let anyone pressure you.
You are a lunar being, tied to the lunar cycle, so the strategy for you is to wait 29 days before making any major decision. During these 29 days, talk with different people about your decision - and listen to what you yourself say about it. Life for you is an impersonal experience. As you go through life, learning the truth of "this isn't me" again and again, your greatest potential is that of complete transparency.
Your openness can be energetically exhausting so it is important to have your own space where you can relax. The same advice regarding sleep applies for you as for everyone else with an undefined Sacral: Wait 29 days the full cycle of the Moon before making a major decision and talk with others about it, while paying attention to what you say Predominant negative feeling: Manifestors, who feel controlled by others all their life, need to inform.
Generators, who have oceans of energy, can't just go around doing anything - they need to wait and respond. Projectors, who can see others and are here to guide them, need to wait for an invitation - something they never expect to happen.
And Reflectors, with their openness and taking in other people's definition, must wait 29 days before making a major decision - no matter how certain they feel about something in the moment.
Centers are areas of special energetic significance in our body. As such, they represent certain types of energies as well as govern the functioning of their associated organs and functions in the body for example G center is responsible for the liver and blood. Our definition, everything that is colored in our chart, is Who We Are.
The definition represents consistency. If we don't follow our strategy and authority, the open centers are places where we get our deepest conditioning, creating great resistance and suffering. Yet when we honor the mechanics of our design, it is through the open centers that we get the greatest learning and wisdom.
When the center is open, it doesn't mean it's empty, or broken. Each design is perfect, when it is honored in a person's life. Notice your mental chatter in regards to your specific open centers and how these centers influence your perception of life almost without you noticing it.
Having it undefined means that most of your thoughts, questions as well as your inspiration come from outside. That's why you constantly think about things that don't matter to you and why your head is full of questions.
Trying to answer them all creates a lot of mental pressure. You can learn to have questions without the need to answer them. Ask yourself from time to time: Am I thinking about things that don't matter? Am I still trying to answer everybody else's questions? Potential wisdom of the open Head: I know which questions are important for me to think about or not.
I know who and what is inspiring for me and I am free of mental pressure. Having it undefined means that you have no consistency in the way that thoughts are accessed and processed. Your thought process is conditioned from the outside. Feeling uncertain about your capacity to communicate and express ideas, you compensate by pretending to be certain - the one who knows and hates to look foolish. Am I still trying to convince everyone that you're certain? Potential wisdom of the open Ajna: I am OK with not being certain.
Great flexibility and thus creativity of thought process. Having it undefined means that you have no consistency - and at the same time great flexibility - in expressing yourself. The need to attract attention by talking. Am I still trying to attract attention? Potential wisdom of the open Throat: It happens when it is correct for me. You don't know who you are, where is your life is going direction and don't always get the love you need not knowing who to love.
Only be in a place that you like, be it your home, city, restaurant or office. Am I still looking for love, for yourself and your direction in life? Potential wisdom of the open G: By living according to my design, love comes to me and I know the next step to take when the time is right.
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Having it undefined means that there is no consistency in applying your will power. That leads to lower self-esteem and underestimating yourself. You try to overcompensate this by being competitive, in control and proving your worth to others and yourself.
Don't make any promises. Do I still have something to prove? Potential wisdom of the open Ego: I have nothing to prove. Having it undefined means that you don't have a consistent access to vitality, you can easily exhaust yourself.
Not knowing when enough is enough, you tend to overdo things work, eating, anything. Remember, you are not here to work, but potentially to guide others in how to work, rather than actually doing it all yourself. Go to bed as soon as you are tired. Do I know when enough is enough? Potential wisdom of the open Sacral: I know when enough is enough.
Having it undefined means that you do things as fast as you can and work hard, in an effort to get rid of the pressure that never goes away. You have the potential to be naturally still and allow the pressure to flow through you without acting upon it. Following your strategy brings you the correct pressure and protects you from the pressure that would harm you.
Am I still in a hurry to be free of the pressure? Potential wisdom of the open Root: I know what pressure is correct for me or not. Having it undefined means that you are open to all kinds of fears and you hold onto things that are no longer good for you. You have a weaker immune system, which makes you sensitive to your body and potentially good at seeing the health of others.
Spontaneity can easily create problems for you. Am I still holding onto what's not good for you? I knowing what is healthy for me or not and I can let go of what doesn't serve me. Having it undefined means that you are very sensitive to emotions, open to the emotions of others as you take them in and feel twice as strong. This leads to strategy of avoiding conflicts and unpleasant truths.